Getting a girl of your dreams is a lot like getting the car of your dreams. But unlike a car you can always haggle for, there is nothing like a 20 percent discount on wooing the girl of your dreams, she is something so sweet that it cannot be ruled out, you are deeply in love with her and your friends. Feelings for her can only be communicated not by the words of the mouth, but by the words of the heart. Getting the girl actually depends on how big your heart is – weak heart, a fair lady never won.
The first step in the exercise of winning hearts for any man is to make a good impression. By doing so, you don’t have to talk, dress, or do the common things all Toms do to get the attention of a decent girl. Be unique, that’s all you need. Be a man of your own style. Dress decently: indecency can be mistaken for arrogance; watch your language: obscene language gives the impression of immaturity, uneducated and cheap; Be a man of good habits, don’t drink or smoke like any other loser.
Let her fall in love little by little. Romance is an important part of falling in love. When I was in college, I fell in love with the most beautiful lady from our freshman year. Although all the older boys wanted to catch that girl, I managed to divert their attention away from the other boys. I wrote him three letters without revealing my identity and slipped into his room secretly; all I said was ‘His secret admirer’. The first letter contained the meaning of his name, this I got by playing with the initials of his name to give it meaning. The second was a funny message that could only be read backwards and it was about his physique and intelligence. In the third letter I told the girl to be ready to receive a rose from her admirer, but only if she could be kind enough to call him at the number he had included in the letter. The girl phoned me that same night and her first words were: “Hallo Secret Admirer.” Then, the story of our love story emerged. She later told me that it had been so creative of me that no one had approached her like that. I made her fall in love with me in a romantic way.
Befriending and understanding the girl you want to get is the next important thing. This is what I did too. You have to understand that as a lady, she loves to be loved, she loves to be adored, and she needs to be needed. This will bring you closer to the girl and you will know what she likes, what she likes and what she doesn’t, and what her style is. Love is based on friendship and always leaves people in a better position to get to know each other in case they break up. My school and I were going to break up some time later, but to date, we are the best of friends. Make sure that bringing out the selfless friend in you will make her create a space for you in her heart.
A shoulder to lean on and a good friend you can always go to is all a lady wants. Feel free to be helpful and understanding. Be that friend who rekindles her zeal for hard work and restores hope to her life when she loses hope. This, above all other things, will make you her daily vitamin simply because you bring out the best in her in terms of personality and character. In you, he will have found that friend with whom he can open up, share and advise each other about what is right and what is wrong, what should and should not be done in life. Don’t forget to always be there to celebrate the good times and listen when the girl needs you to listen to her as a friend.
Make the girl feel special; because she is someone’s friend, your friend, and let her know that she too has touched your life in a unique way like no one else could. Congratulate her for her company and for being there when she needed her, when she was feeling sad and lonely. Show appreciation for the comfort the girl offers you and for making you smile.
In your day-to-day talks, share your dreams, your world and every aspect of your life with your girl. Always dream of her, build with her and always cheer her on and cheer her on. Tell your girl how you always think about her, even when you try not to think about her. Let the child know that it is the first thing she does in the morning and the last thing she does when she goes to bed at night.
Knowing that you were thinking of her when you slipped under the softness of your blanket and gave in to the bliss of sweet dreams will make her say ‘my my’ and her heart will sing your name all year long.
You have to be creative and constructive to keep the girl’s interest in you so full of life. I remember once I told my girlfriend to imagine that we are both deaf and empty. Then we sat across from each other at the table and began to share our feelings with our eyes and hands. It turned out to be fun. There was also this time that we were in the library and we decided that we would not speak verbally, so I wrote a love note on a piece of paper and passed it to the other side of the table, she responded and so on. We continued our love in conversation on paper until we almost used up an entire edge of paper. At some point, I noticed that some of the guys sitting with us at the table were enjoying our ordeal rather than their studies. Such are the things that made the girl embrace my world. I remember her suggesting that we play deaf and garbage two years after our breakup, can you imagine that?
Never stop calling, even when you least expect it. I once called a girl I was interested in at four in the morning. When I asked him what he was doing so early, I told him that he was in thirteenth heaven, where people think of their loved ones when they can’t sleep. Wow! First thing the next morning, he was at my door with a huge hug for me.
No matter how many dates you take her, don’t nudge – go overboard after any date, just drop her at home and with a friendly handshake, wish her good night. Don’t kiss her when she expects you to. Your respect as a gentleman will be earned by how patient you are with her when it comes to matters like kissing her and accessing your inner graces.
The writing is on the wall that you want it, but you can’t have it yet. Increase your demand. Try to show him that men are hard to come by sometimes too. Make her realize that when she’s feeling a little dizzy, a little tired, a little sad, a little sick, very bored, and very cold, she is actually missing you from your vitamins. At this time, she will be very interested in you and since love is truthful and characterized by open and honest communication, she honestly promises your eternal devotion, loyalty, respect and unconditional love for life. Show her that you will always be there for her, to listen to her and hold her hand, and that you will always do everything you can to make her happy and feel loved.
Remember, patience is the key to your heart; Be like that gardener who looks at a fruit hanging from the tree, day after day admiring it, but exercising tremendous self-discipline, without feeling the fruit, or pinching it, or tasting it to see if it is ready. And then one day she reaches out and the fruit just falls on her, ripe and warm and eager to be eaten.
Your patience and self-control will make you more attractive and charming. This will rate you as his daily vitamin and win that heart of hers.
I wish you meet the girl of your dreams as soon as possible, that she falls in love with you and that she feels the happiest girl in the world!