Why the narcissistic knight in shining armor turns out to be a loser in foil

It is okay to have a healthy love relationship. Unfortunately, you may realize that your partner is a narcissist. It is a shocking and sad fact. It is much better to know the truth than to be stuck in lies for the rest of your life.

Narcissists are those types of people who cannot love other human beings. They sabotage and destroy their relationships. Keep your eyes peeled so it’s not too late to go out.

The relationship with a narcissist will change you. There is a proverb “When you are in Rome, do what the Romans do”. In other words, this person affects your emotions, your behaviors, and your decisions. Their mind games, manipulations and lies will brainwash you. You will agree to believe many false toxic beliefs about yourself and your life. Toxic memories about him will linger in your mind for a long time.

When you decide to leave, you may be completely shattered in your new reality without him. You lost your identity and self esteem when you were exploited for their dominance and abuse.

Narcissistic leads its victims to lose their authenticity. You will no longer know who you are because he was the only one who told you who you are for so long.

You may feel broken when he broke your trust and emotionally betrayed you. In other words, he tricks his person into trusting him completely. It leads you to tell him everything about yourself. You believed in his false personality and his false intentions. That is the reason why they manipulated you to do, think and feel what he wanted. He simply used your weaknesses and confidence against you.

Narcissists love power and control. He knows what women love to have a romantic partner. So they play a love scene. Often times, he will be the first to use those three magic words of ‘I LOVE YOU’.

He will repeat this over and over again until he gets the same confession from you. It’s just a confirmation to them that they absorbed you. Then you must worship and obey them. Otherwise, you will be useless to him.

He will also do his best to isolate you. He hates the exposure of his family and friends. That is the main reason why it will separate you from them. You will be left alone with him. You will not win with his endless mind games and abuse.

His plan is to destroy your life. It will grab you mentally. It is a mind control game. He will offend and degrade you. You think you are a useless, weak, loveless and unimportant creature. No one but him can love you, so you must stay. If you rebel, he will use your dark secrets against you. If you want to run away, he will keep you financially dependent and mentally addicted to it.

When he decides that you are not a good supply for him, he will leave you like an empty wallet. It will find a new victim leaving you wondering what happened. Yes, you have never been a loving human being to him. You were an object to him.

It is a very heartbreaking experience. There is a lot of pain, painful emotions, and traumatic memories. When you accept a challenge and acknowledge your pain, you have a chance to be reborn. It is a great opportunity to rebuild yourself, to become a strong, free and empowered individual.

If you are in a relationship with a narcissist now, you don’t have to live like this. You can leave before I continue.

Take a deep breath, recognize those red flags, and do something about them.

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