After my ex girlfriend broke up with me, there wasn’t a day that I didn’t want to get my ex girlfriend back. It really was quite a pathetic condition. Never in my wildest dreams did I think she would be such a sissy, down for my girlfriend, but love has this way of doing the strangest things to you! She Not only was she depressed, she was literally rolling me over and there was nothing I could do about it!
On the other hand, I heard that my ex-girlfriend was better than ever and busy flirting with all the guys she could touch. That really hurt me at first, but after a while, that’s what made me realize that I had a very good chance of getting my ex girlfriend back!
Keys
Call me twisted, but if a girl is freaking out, flirting with a different guy every day, sometimes two in one day, it obviously means she’s doing everything she can to forget about someone, that someone is her ex-boyfriend! aka me! So even though she was trying her best to convince me otherwise, my girlfriend was unknowingly giving me all the signs she needed to realize that she still wanted me back.
Even though everything inside of me was screaming at me to take her aside and show her how much I loved her, as primitive cavemen did with their mates, I curled up. After all, he needed to give her some time off. Trust me, if you want to get your ex girlfriend back, the first thing you need to do is give them the space they need. No, it’s not just a fancy word they say! Actually, they are serious.
The Practical Aspects
After you’ve given her a fortnight or a bit more to herself (there’s no set period, it depends on the type of person she is and of course the type of relationship you shared), you can sneak past her she knows that you are still interested. If you’re in high school like me, you can smile at her as you walk past her in the hallways; Be sure to power up her and make her a little nervous!
Maintain a constant flow of communication. No, you don’t have to call her every day. An email or two in a week will do just fine. But definitely nothing more than that. Also, if you really want to get your ex girlfriend back, do yourself a favor and stay away from other girls! Although it may seem like a great idea to make her jealous at first, it won’t work in your favor. Of course, there are some exceptions to the rule, but in general, this is not a good idea.
Lastly, be the guy she fell in love with in the first place. Find out what she likes best about you and develop those traits, be your nicest self to her and believe me, you will be well on your way to getting your ex girlfriend back!