Giving a sensual massage is a wonderful way to give and receive pleasure. Giving your partner a long massage is a great way to relax your lover. It also takes them out of our busy lives and into our bodies and pleasure, as well as putting them both in a sensual frame of mind.
A massage table is the best way to give a sensual massage. However, a bed or your living room is also good. Be sure to leave some towels as you need to use massage oil on your body.
Then play some new age or classical music to set the mood. One needs at least 1 hour to do a good sensual massage, so don’t rush it. The room must be warm so that your partner can be completely naked and not be cold. The slower and longer you take to massage, the happier your partner will be.
The best way to start the sensual massage is to rub your hands together. This warms up the hands as no one likes cold hands for a massage. It is good to place the massage oil in hot water to warm the oil as well.
You can start with a few long, oil-free strokes from head to toe. I usually start with my lover on the forehead. Touch very lightly so that you only touch the hairs on the body. I like to use fur or feathers to start the massage.
Blowing can be very sensual. Try blowing from the toes to the legs, over the genitals and stomach to the head. I usually do this a couple of times. Then in the massage when it’s more sexual, I open the buttocks and blow into the anus. Everyone I’ve tried this stroke on loves it.
Then put some oil on your hands and massage your back with long, easy strokes. It is better not to talk during the massage so that the time is calm and peaceful. One can be behind the head and drop back near the turn and back off the sides.
Start the movements slowly and then once the body has warmed up and relaxed the pressure can be increased. You can then knead the meat around her lover’s shoulders and neck with your thumb and forefinger. Most of us have a lot of neck and shoulder tension.
Massage the legs and arms and don’t forget the fingers or toes. Sucking on fingers and toes can be very erotic.