How to prevent premature ejaculation sooner than you think
We would all love to say that we are the sex god of our girls in the bedroom, but this is most likely sadly not the case if you are reading this article.
Your sex life with your partner is a joke, both of you are fed up in the bedroom and your girl is sick and tired of not getting her sexual needs met. She doesn’t paint a pretty picture, does she?
But imagine this alternative instead…
You have sex with your partner every day, now it’s an activity that you both love to share and can’t wait to have each other in the bedroom. Your sex life is varied, you go through more positions than you knew existed. They both have an orgasm together, then lie down and snuggle in each other’s arms, with their sexual and emotional needs satisfied…
This could be your new reality, but only you you can take the necessary steps toward that goal!
Here are your first tips on how to prevent premature ejaculation, starting today.
- self control – One of the most important parts of this puzzle that is premature ejaculation is the ability to have control over your sexual energy and your ejaculatory control. Once you get control of these, you will be able to last many more minutes in bed with your girl. One way to start on this path of self-control is to keep your bedroom time in perspective. Don’t overreact when having sex with your girl. If he can keep his mind under better control, then he will last many times longer than now.
- effective distraction – Another good way to prevent premature ejaculation is to stop thinking about what you are doing. If you focus solely on your thrust, the warm sensation on your penis, your partner’s naked body, you will lose control and unload your load in seconds. Not good. Instead, take your mind elsewhere, imagine something that has nothing to do with sex. Review the players of your favorite team, maybe count sheep. The most effective method I found when suffering from this was to go through the alphabet backwards in my head. It was enough of a distraction to let me last a few minutes longer than usual, but those few minutes made all the difference.
- put their needs first – It goes without saying that when it comes to being naturally designed for pleasure during sex, the female body beats ours any day of the week. Your girl’s body is literally one giant erogenous zone, and you should take advantage of this fact. Be a selfless lover. Give pleasure to your girl and her body using your hands, lips, tongue. Pay close attention to her labia, neck, breasts and finally to her vagina and clitoris. There are enough hot spots to keep you busy for as long as you both want. Then you can move on to penetrative sex when you’re both ready. his fault it will quickly fade to nothing.
And that can only be good for both of you…