He has tried everything in the stock of suggestions from his friends, but they have been of no use in getting his ex-wife back, he has even tried to incorporate some “personal” touches into his strategies, but all to no avail. Take advantage and feel like the lowest being on earth.
The overwhelming loneliness of an empty house, even though you’re doing your best to bravely ignore it, is almost too much to bear…does this sound familiar? I’m sure I’ve summed up your mood pretty accurately, because I’ve been through the same thing myself.
To hell with the world!
But now I’m back with my wife and it’s been three years since we got back together, so there’s still hope for you. Getting your ex-wife back may seem like a daunting task at first, but trust me, it’s completely doable…if you know how to do it better. So what should you do first? Start by not listening to a single piece of advice from her friends.
Yes, you read it right! Don’t listen to a word they say! This is simply because they don’t know your wife; You are the only one who knows her and you don’t need her help to figure out how to get close to her! Think back to the time you started dating. Getting your ex wife back becomes really easy, if you become the person she fell in love with in the first place.
You can argue that you are still the same guy, but she may think otherwise. Your behavior towards her may have changed! For example, did you ever take her for granted in the first month of your relationship? Of course not! But now, after you two have gotten married, you are used to having her around her and you can’t help but take her for granted. But here’s the thing, SHE HATES IT!
change is the key
You’re going to lose any chance of getting your ex-wife back if you can’t make her see that you’ve changed. If she feels that she, by coming back to you, will return to the same relationship, with all her faults, then she will run like the wind in the opposite direction!
You have to convince her that if you are given a second chance, no, even a half chance, you will work to make your relationship and marriage work, no matter what. You have to make her feel safe enough to trust you the second time; this is crucial, if she really wants to get ex-wife back from her.
How are you going to do that? Be attentive, pay special attention to her needs and desires, pamper her like a princess (I’m not talking about materialistic things, I’m talking about watching over her and taking care of her) and showing her over and over again how much you love her. If you can do this, then believe me, getting your ex wife back will be a piece of cake!