I must confess that there is no such thing as a perfect relationship. Even if you want to be in love with the person you thought you loved so much, there is always a chance that he or she is cheating on you. Life is always like this, giving us things that are contrary to our own expectations.
I want to state categorically here that cheating wives are not actually born to do it, they learn the act over time. And there are so many things that help them do it. You should be careful every time her wife spreads too much of her love around her because that can imply something different, in a negative sense. Understand that I am not trying to advocate suspicions about your wife or sow the seeds of mistrust, but am just saying that many women are adept at covering up her true nature.
Many times, when there are heated arguments in the home, women often take the opportunity to punish their men and honestly get their way. Men learn very early that talking so much to women about lighter topics can escalate into bigger problems, so they have to apologize.
Saying sorry isn’t really the problem. The question now is whether the accusation leveled against the man is true or not. Men who come home stressed from work have been known to be overly apologetic as a result of losing interest in sex. For almost all women, it is a clear indication that the man is getting it elsewhere and therefore a detailed explanation may be needed, otherwise there would be war. Every man who is defensive in a family matter is considered to have something hidden inside of him. Defensiveness can be caused by many things, but without understanding it, every time a man refuses to give a quick answer to even the most simple and fair question, or answers after repeating the same question to his wife, he becomes cause of fight
Although too many excuses from your partner may sound too obvious, people take advantage of certain problems like going on a business trip, working late, unexpected meetings, etc., as the worst sign of a cheating partner in every marriage. Another is to hang up the phone when your partner comes in. This has led to so many couples fighting because the wife felt that the man might be hiding something. One woman said that the same day her husband hung up the phone when she walked into her room was the same day he showered her with inexplicable gifts. Was he trying to throw her off by being extra nice?
Saying no to that offer made things worse, so it became friction. The husband became separated from home, refusing to show up at so many family functions, but he developed an attitude of hanging out with friends. The day he came out daring, he went to point out the defects of his wife, not willing to communicate harmoniously as usual. Every sentiment expressed by the woman would be rejected and could be used as an excuse for further reprimand. The next thing was that a mysterious lady came to the house claiming to be her husband’s co-worker.
This sounds like devil’s advocate, doesn’t it? Imagine telling him not to apologize to his wife because he wants to be in charge. Well, whatever the case, God created man and woman to be one, just as Christ and the Father are one. God wants us to live together, without inventing any means to deceive. Every time we try to cheat in a home, we are trying to miss God’s original intent and purpose in bringing a man and a woman together. God wants us to put on his image in our marriage relationship. We get the image of him when we put on Christ, and let him reign as Lord of our lives. The Lord is standing at the door of your marital home, knocking. If you open the door of your married life, He will definitely come in and be your God.
Friend, Jesus wants to come into your life and be Lord of your marriage. When we are born again, we establish a new relationship with Christ and that is what gives us a new image, since we are intimately related to Him. Holiness is the fruit of that relationship, which we must reflect throughout the world. When we do this, there will be no reason to suspect, look down on, or abuse our spouses! By honoring our marriage, we honor God: marriage is a thing of God!